How can I escape this yearlong crush?
Dear Anna,I'm a 20-year-old male, and I've had an enormous crush on this girl since New Year's (We'll call her Z). Z isn't the girl I want, but my heart...
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Should I invite a stranger I met online into my home?
Dear Anna, So this guy who lives in Portland has been pursuing me on OkCupid. The messages progressed to phone, so we've been texting a lot, and things have actually...
How do women really feel about gingers?
As a man with ginger DNA, I've always wondered if there is a cultural or a natural tendency for women to not like gingers. Is it a recessive trait that...
Quick and dirty sex advice: fall edition
It's time for another round of quick and dirty advice: short questions, short answers, short skirts, long jackets. Let's get down before the Christmas decorations come up. Dear Anna: Is...
Dear Anna: Does lip-biting equal attraction?
Dear Anna: I work at a gym and I see this particular member who always bites her lip at me. It must mean she's attracted to me. I decided to...
Love and how to stop hating your body
Dear Anna: I need your help. I'm recently out of a relationship and I've gained a lot of weight. I hate the way I look and it's come to the...
He’s battling childhood demons and trying to date
Dear Anna: When I match with women on Tinder or OkCupid, they never respond. I probably send a dozen messages per day and most days never get any responses. What...
I get a lot of unwanted attention – how do I stop it?
Dear Anna: At the risk of sounding like a huge ingrate and egotistical, this is my question: What do I do if I'm getting constantly hit on and I'm tired...
How to get over that quarter-life crisis
Dear Anna: I'm 23, approaching my first year of a post-college starter job that's sucking me dry. I'm single. I'm lonely, and I guess I'm wondering if this is a...
Anal sex, threesomes, kissing friends-oh my!
Dear Anna: I went on two dates with a guy I saw a lot of potential in. The third date he told me he just wanted to be friends and...