Q. How are we girls supposed to know if a guy is straight or gay? How can we prevent wasting time and emotion going after a gay man? Are there signs that we could look for?
A. That’s a difficult question since it’s almost impossible to know.
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There are no real signs, and sometimes even the guy isn’t sure himself. The only real way of finding out is to try to develop a relationship and see what happens.
However, I am also in favor of listening to your inner voice. I don’t say that you should jump to conclusions about someone just because he might have a certain mannerism, but if you go out with a guy and have the feeling that he might be gay, you should place some value in that.
If you do have suspicions, you have to take them seriously. You’ll have to confront him and ask him whether he is interested in women or men.
That’s really the only way of finding the answer to that question. You might as well be bold and find out sooner rather than later.