Q. Why is oral sex so often perceived as dirty or evil? Would you agree that it is an essential part of sexual enjoyment?
A. “Essential” is too strong a word, though I agree that any sexual activity between two consenting adults ought to be considered as wonderful, clean and enjoyable.
Since there has been more communication about issues of sexuality, more people have been engaging in oral sex, but that doesn’t mean that others don’t have a right to perceive it as they see fit. If they have a moral conviction that it is wrong, then they should stick with that. And if they really don’t want to engage in oral sex, then they shouldn’t be pressured into it. But as far as the genitals being dirty, the simple solution for anyone who has that particular hang-up is to include a good washing as part of the sexual encounter.