Q. I am a woman and I would like to know what things I should be doing to my lover during sex besides just thrusting. What general things do men like?
A. When you mention thrusting, I believe you are talking only of intercourse, and the one thing you could do is to practice the Kegel exercises, which tighten the muscles of your vagina. But sex is more than intercourse, so if you want to please your man you might also be willing to practice oral sex, which many men find very sexy. You also should touch him, caress him and massage him, and, of course, that goes for men too, who should do as much for their partners.
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It is also a good idea to let your partner, of either sex, guide your hand toward the parts they like best to be touched. Some people have difficulties talking about their likes and dislikes, but through body language you can easily learn what you need to know.