Q. I have this fetish, you might call it, for shaved or partially shaved genitals on women. My question is, am I strange or just kinky, and how can I go about asking or getting my lover to try it? I feel this would enhance our somewhat dull and routine sex life. I love her dearly but want to have some fun.
By the way, I once dated a girl who did have shaved genitals, and it drove me wild
A. Yes, there are some men, and women, who get aroused by having a partner with shaved pubic hair, and there is nothing wrong with that, but if your partner is unwilling, and if you really love her, don’t make an issue out of it. Use thoughts about shaved women, maybe that one you knew, in your fantasies, but don’t try to put any pressure on your current partner. If you do, I’m afraid it will mean the end of the relationship.