Q. If a women uses a vibrator to masturbate, can it spoil sex with a man? I’ve heard that the genitals can become overstimulated and thus desensitized by using one.
A Yes, the genitals can become desensitized by using a vibrator, and so I always suggest to women that after getting themselves aroused with the vibrator, they put it aside and finish with their hand.
Q. What are the physical and emotional drawbacks, if any, that occur after being very sexually active for a long period of time and then stopping?
A. There are no drawbacks. Somebody who has been sexually active and then decides not to be sexually active again until getting married will not turn into a toad. Anyone who feels sexually frustrated can always masturbate. It is not necessary to be involved in a sexual encounter.